You don't have to write them yourselves for it to be the most beautiful ceremony your guests have ever seen.
There's a lot of pressure for your vows to be perfect—heartfelt and personal, poetic and original. But your vows don't have to be stressful! Whether you and your partner want to surprise each other with your vows on your wedding day, or you want to collaborate with your partner on shared promises, your vows will be perfect as long as they're a reflection of you. And that doesn't mean they have to be original either! You may choose to use the same traditional vows your grandparents said to one another, or maybe you'll find an example you love online. Your vows will be special because you've chosen them!